And i forgot to mention another problem i face but i dont think it is related to the one i mentioned before...
on the ldap i get only that on the log
*Mar 22 16:35:18 proof slapd: auxpropfunc error no mechanism available Mar 22 16:35:18 proof slapd: _sasl_plugin_load failed on sasl_auxprop_plug_init for plugin: sql