It is not related to your problem, but considering your acl, the userpassword (and shadowlastchange) of the cn=sync user won't be replicated. If this behaviour is not intended, you should refer to the openldap admin guide http://www.openldap.org/doc/admin24/access-control.html


On the MAIN SERVER I HAVE 
access to attrs=userPassword,shadowLastChange
        by self =xw
        by anonymous auth
by dn="cn=sync,dc=my company,dc=com" read
        by * none 
--Quanah

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Quanah Gibson-Mount
Principal Software Engineer
Zimbra, Inc
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